Here he cites few reasons:-
1. Sheer
boredom:
They say variety is the spice of
life for a reason. When sex becomes predictable and routine and your life just
a bunch of to-do lists to be followed with dedication, monotony kills the zeal
for life and the joy of companionship. This could be one reason for women to
look for an affair outside the wedlock. Sometimes career goals keep partners
away from each other and loneliness can make one crave for companionship like
crazy. If a woman (or even a man) gets an opportunity to share some space with
the member of the opposite sex it stands the potential to turn into an
extramarital affair.
2. Craving
for more:
We cannot always blame the man
for looking out for variety, fun and enjoyment outside the wedlock; women too
can follow the same lines of infidelity just for the heck of it. For some
women, the word contentment doesn t have a concrete meaning and they might have
a sexual appetite that is hard to satisfy being in a monogamous relationship.
This can make a woman sneak out new love interest keeping the partner in dark.
3. Lack
of love:
Some marriages are not act of
love but an act of convenience and these kinds of relationships are headed for
doom sooner or later. So when there is no real love or when two partners fail
to establish a connection that go deep and touch a chord within, looking for
love outside marriage isn t surprising. What cannot be nurtured cannot blossom
and what gets nourished (in this case an extramarital affair) grows wild and
fierce. Many women might not even consider family or abide by the so-called
societal norms in pursuit of their love or while siding with their new found
love.
4. A
tormented marriage:
For some women, an extramarital
relationship might be the only way to get away from a tormented marriage.
Domestic violence, alcoholic partner, marital rape all could take a toll on
her, which can force her to look for some solace in someone else s loving arms
and get engulfed in his warmth and care. Chances are the marriage might not
survive long.
5. Ex-flames:
Sometimes when two ex-lovers meet
the spark can kind of get reignited and this could be the reason for an affair
to bloom. Of course, it all depends on how the relationship ended in the first
place but then when lost love crosses your path a lot can get ruffled in the
way.
6. Revenge:
Some women get into an
extramarital affair just to take revenge over a cheating partner and more often
than not the affair ends up with the man s friend, colleague or a distant
relative.
Whatever the reason for an
extramarital affair remember to takes away a lot from you than it gives so way
your pros and cons carefully.