I was going home yesterday after delivery at the federal housing estate, Calabar. On my way home, I saw a lady standing beside the road half-naked. She said to me while pointing her finger to her opened breasts, 'Hello, Sexy'! I know she was saying her breasts are sexy. I looked at her and shook my head in pity for her. I moved on. As I walked a little distance from her, I got to a place (old odukpani road) where you have taxi drivers passing. I saw a lady driving a taxi car slowly, and dressed in a sporty way. She called to me and said, " Hello sir, Taxi? Meaning, she was asking me if I would like to take a taxi. I smiled at her and said sure and I quickly jumped inside the car with others passengers.  I also gave her a tump up and a look of ' Weldone, I am proud of you. While one lady was ready to offer her body for sex to get money, another was ready to work with her hands by driving people to their destination and earn money in a dignified way. It is a...

The mother-in-law of this lady was with them to take care of the new baby boy. As the mama (Mother-in-law ) was bathing for this 9 days old baby boy, I guess the baby had an erection. Mama saw it and was happy or something like that. Then, she started saying, hmmm, akwa awuden, (Great man). In my mind, I was happy to hear that. All of a sudden, I heard this their mother-in-law started saying, "akpara ke afo do o" , "akpara ke afo do o" (meaning: You are a prostitute). I was so furious in my spirit. I don't joke with words. I moved closer to the mother-in-law and I said, mama, why are you calling this your grandchild Ashawo? What you are saying is very bad and wrong ma. You are sowing an evil seeds into the life of this innocent boy. Is it a crime that he has an erection? She looked at me like, why are you so concerned with what I am just using to joke with my grandson? She said I am just teasing him because I saw him having an erection. I did not mean it. ...

I remember a guy when I was still a teenager. He told me as at that time about his sexual adventure and recklessness. As at the time I was 17 years old, this guy was 18 years old and he had had sex with 65 ladies at that time; both married and single ladies. I shook my head for him and I asked in amazement how he was able to build such huge records of sin. He told me, 'I don't zip my zip and many times, I don't wear pant or boxer. I tuck out my shirt always, so it can cover the unzipped zips of my trouser. Dave, this is what we call 'k'usôp usôp ' .( 'ku'sôp usôp means, something that will fasten your work). I wept for him and he eventually became a shadow of himself. Till now, he could not 'stand' up in life. What a pity! Many guys/men/boys go about today with "Unzipped zips'. Though they zipped up the zips of their physical trousers but in their mindset and mentality, they go about with unzipped zips. When intentionally you don't z...

You see that statement up there? Let me tell you about it. This Brother was one of the Coordinators in their fellowship. He was close to this sister and the sister too likes him just as brother in the fellowship, fervent and strong in the works of the Lord. One day, the brother visited the sister and at a time, the lady was serving the brother a soft drink when the brother grabbed her from the back and started hopping at her. The lady was taken aback as she never imagined such from the brother. The brother started forcing himself on the lady. She pleaded with him to stop the foolishness and reminded him of his position as a child of God and as a Coordinators in the fellowship. All her pleads fell on a deaf ears. She struggled to run out of the room, but the guy prevented her. At a point, she thought of a way out. She told the brother that, she will agree to have sex with him but he should go the nearby chemist shop and get a condom so she will not be at the risk of pregnancy. She said ...

There are many people whose beds are their main battlefield. Many people got defeated in life on their beds, while asleep. Many see so many disturbing dreams, nightmares, arrows and evil ghosts and personalities tormenting them in/ on their bed at night. Some receive regular beatings on their bed. Some are being practically raped in their dream by strange forces and they wake up to see their private parts reacting like real sex just happened. Some fight the idols, demons of their father's house in their dreams. While some win these battles, some lost these battles. As a Child of God, your bed should not be a battlefield. And if at all the devil and his cohorts brings any battle to your bed in the night while asleep, your inner man should be so much on fire to consume them.. From today, everyone reading this, over the battles of the bed, you are declared winner in Jesus name! Your sleep and dreams tonight shall be peaceful and victorious in Jesus name!

Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a tiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”. Why would God-Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why it is so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched? Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE! It was God (our creator) who set that blood- filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the deflowering of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the bloodshed on that day. This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges into this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be jo...

How much do you think you really know about sex? I really think you should go through this list to check how much you know about sex. Below are 25 facts about sex everyone should know The average size of a man’s penis is 5 inches to 7 inches when erect. A teaspoonful of semen contains about 5 calories. Sex works as a painkiller – especially with headaches. 60% of men get erect penis when turned on. There are 250 million sperm in a teaspoon of semen. A man ejaculates at an average speed of 28 mph. A woman’s clitoris contains over 8000 nerve fibres, almost twice of a penis. Having sex can improve your sleep cycle, lower your blood pressure and ease stress. A man approximately ejaculates 17 litres of semen in his entire life that contains about half a trillion sperm. It’s hard to pee after sex because of an antidiuretic hormone that prevents urine. Peeing after sex helps prevent urinary tract infection. The average length of a flaccid pen*s is 3.89 inches. On an ...

I am seeing sperm in my urine. My friends said I must have sex so all these can stop. Please help me baby and it is only you I can have sex with. Please help me. You see that statement up there? That was what a guy told one of my daughters in the Lord just to persuade her to give him sex. This lady came to my inbox to ask me if it is true a guy can be going through such pain because of lack of sex. She was almost pitying the guy. I had to tell her that the guy is a full blown liar trying to deceive gullible girls and lure them into satisfying his sexual urge. We all have this penis. Stop doing as if your own penis is different from what all of us have under us. Young girls, are you reading this post now? Let me tell you the truth, except a guy is on strong weed, masturbating or watching pornography, it is not possible to have erection for 3 hours at a stretch. You see why it is good for you girls not to be too secretive? Thank God this girl confided in me and I wa...

You see that statement up there? I will tell you about it. Please, read on. A married women brought a chat between her husband and his side chic to me. I saw the man saying in that chats that his wife died 7 years ago and the most painful part of it is that, this woman said, herself and the husband still had sex that morning he chatted his girlfriend that his wife is dead. The wife is now praying that the husband should die because he is calling her a dead woman while she's still alive. One thing that you can do as a married man to bring your life to ruin and bring the anger of God on your life is to deny your family. You are married; but because you still want to enjoy night clubbing, side chic(side chickens), champagne with single girls and all other youthful frivolities, you are parading yourself online as a single guy. You opened a Facebook account and you blocked your wife off it so that she won't know your activities here because you are making gulli...

1. SEX: Yes I said it... When the sex is too early, and too nice... Awe sure, everything else goes on hold and the focus of the relationship is now just on doing. Sex to a growing relationship is like chicken feed to broiler chickens.... It makes the relationship grow very fast without corresponding strength. Sex makes a GMR - Genetically Modified Relationship, early maturing... Instead of thinking about how to make the relationship better, you start thinking of how to make the next sex escapade better. Instead of looking at whether the prospective partner is good for life, you start looking at whether or not they are good in bed. Instead of planning the future together, you start planning sex styles together... As if you are planning on doing a Kamasutra movie. 2. MONEY: It is no wonder scripture says; "the love of money is the root of all evil or maybe even route to all evil". Money can make you marry an evil person. For instance, when a guy has money, wro...

When a woman marries a man because of money and physical beauty and a man marries a woman because of beauty, forgotten that Is better with Idea woman and man and have peace at home . Although handsome men and beautiful ladies is very good, but let it not be because of the outside beauty alone but inside beauty as well because that is what made you who u really are, because someone like me I always cherish beautiful children with good character, God made men and women physically beautiful so that men will appreciate his hand work and give glory to him, the beauty God gave us is not what makes us wrong man and woman, it is our decisions, our attitudes, our lifestyles, our believes, if a man decide to follow the ways of God and fear him God will beautify him and distinguish him from others and if a woman decided to use her beauty, her body to serve God, God will make her a virtuous woman blessed among others, the problems many women have is that they don't know the blessedness of b...

For the last several years, the world has done all it could to bastardize, re-define and pervert the issue of sex and the church has largely kept silent or give conflicting answers to the ungodly ways of the world. Majority of the church, including her topmost leaders have been confused about the relationship between sexuality and spirituality, thereby failing to provide clear teachings and examples to the church of God. Quite sad, that the moral apostasy of the world have gradually crept into high places in the church. Some sections of the church today see nothing wrong in homosexuality, lesbianism, pornography, rape, masturbation and all kinds of sexual pervasions, which in turn have eroded the spiritual impact of the church and turned her largely to social and secular entities. It’s time to go back to the Bible and seek the mind of God concerning sexuality and spirituality afresh. A.      Biblical Foundation :– Gen. 2:25; 4:1; 1 Samuel ...

1. RECONCILIATION SEX: Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and diffusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximizing it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict. 2. HEALING SEX: There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex. Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%. 3. PUNISHMENT SEX: When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless a...

  It is humane enough to give into temptations; emotions can be wild and desires like an untamed child. They can make you put all logic, rationale and ethics into the back burner. It takes a lot of effort and not to mention. one has to endure a different kind of pain altogether when one decides to side with morality. It is the pain of never knowing how the forbidden fruit would taste. Whatever it is, infidelity or loyalty is a personal choice. But to say married women cheat is a wrong and unethical statement. Well, not all married women but why some married women cheat is what we are getting at. Sometimes even women who have the picture perfect life find it difficult to resist the love seeks them out of the wedlock. knowing what makes women fall into extramarital relationships, sometimes despite living a perfectly happy married life. Here he cites few reasons:- 1.        Sheer boredom: They say variety is the spice of life for a reason...