1. RECONCILIATION SEX: Sex is a
most potent weapon for diluting and diffusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If
you don't use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and
not maximizing it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the
person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on
the receiving side of the conflict.
2. HEALING SEX:
There are some sicknesses and
diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex. Healing sex is
gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it
softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on
her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.
3. PUNISHMENT SEX:
When I counsel couples, are times
I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by
depriving him of sex", or "since she refused me, I decided not to
touch her again". That is as senseless as saying "since my child
failed a Test, I punished him by withdrawing him from school". It's
foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more sex as punishment
rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct
them using sex. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public
disgrace. Punishment sex is very hot.
4. MEMORABLE SEX:
This is a very special kind of
sex that you organize and plan for. Ever couple must be doing this once in a
while. Honeymoons should be organized at least once is a quarter (once in 3
months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7
days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You
mustn't go to hotel if you can't afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and
make it memorable. Light Candles around and on the blue or green bulb. Use good
perfume and the Angels will bear you witness.
5. QUICK SURPRISED SEX: This is a
sex that married couples should do often to build their love life. One
"Quickie" is stronger than 100 Love Charms from India or oshogbo. A
Quickie is that very fast sex that a couple does in ODD places or in ODD position.
Usually one spouse surprises the other with it. You don't take formal
permission quickies. You just start it just like that. MARRIAGES WITHOUT
QUICKIES HAVE QUICK PROBLEMS AND BREAK QUICK. Spouses who don't believe in
surprise sex are analogue and expired. Quickies can be done in the car. Drive
her to a corner and pretend as if the car didn't start. It can take place on
kitchen sink or at the balcony or inside swimming pool or in garden.
6. EXERCISE SEX:
This type should happen
frequently especially in the mornings. God did it that the male organ wakes up
in the morning erect to greet it's Owner - the Wife. So as much as humanly
possible, let every wife answer the morning greeting. God's mercies are New
Every Morning. Great is His Faithfulness. Mercy and Faithfulness are co-joined
twins.
7. ENCOURAGEMENT SEX:
You use this type of Sex to
encourage your Spouse to do something or Not to do something. There are times
he wants to do something that you think is not the best of decision, just come
in the most seductive way and delay him. When he is exhausted after you have
drilled him, speak softly and he will say "I didn't know that was what you
were saying before, now I understand you".
8. REWARD SEX:
This is the type that you reward
your spouse for achieving something unique or for exceeding expectations.
Reward Sex is not just one round but extended over a period of time. Reward Sex
is an open check to do whatever he or she loves. It's extra ordinary.
9. PROCREATION SEX:
This is sex you do purely for
pregnancy. When you need child, the best style is the one that gives the
husband maximum penetration. Support your wife with pillow is you aren't a
long man. But you must make sure it is as wet as wetness can be. Sperm needs
wetness to swim inside the womb. When he releases he must remain inside there
for a few minutes. Don't pull fast