JUST FOR YOU   I love you doesn't mean I want to marry you I love you doesn't mean I can't breathe without you I love you doesn't mean I want to spend the rest of my life with you I love you doesn't mean we have to be together I love you doesn't mean we should get married I love you doesn't mean I will always be there for you I love you doesn't mean I need you I love you doesn't mean there won't be opposition's trials and temptation But I love you and I will always love for the little things you do for me, I love you despite the ups and downs   Thanks for coming into my life I LOVE YOU 

Having vagina, boobs, and hips doesn't make you a woman. A woman is the one who feeds a man with encouragement and ideas  A woman is the one who helps a man to save and invest wisely . A woman does not run her mouth with sarcasm and insult just to prove a point, rather her words are gracious and can heal a broken heart . A woman is the one that knows when to talk and to keep Quiet. A woman is the one that doesn't leak secret.  A woman is the one that is content with what she has, and not the one that sells her self for material things. A woman is a manager, a caretaker a womb that can nature and birth destinies . A woman doesn't do trending things, but she is reserved and has a taste of a Queen. A woman doesn't look down on any man because of his present state of life and financial status, rather she encourages any man to get better. A woman is the one that does not just bears babies, but bear ideas and inspiration anytime, anywhere. A woman  is the one a man can cry on...

Once upon a time a beautiful girl got tired of her married life and wanted to murder her spouse. One morning she ran to her mother and say to her " mother, I am tired of my husband I can no longer support his nonsense. I want to kill him but I am afraid Law of the land will hold me responsible, can you please help me, mother?" The mother answered:- Yes my daughter I can help you, but, there is a little task attached. The daughter asked "what task? I am willing and ready to assume any task attached in order to get him out" OK, said the mother. 1.. You will have to make peace with him, so that no one will suspect you when he is dead. 2.. You will have to beautify yourself in order to look young and attractive to him. 3.. You have to take good care of him and be very nice and appreciative to him. 4.. You have to be patient, loving and less jealous, have more listening ears, be more respectful and obedient. 5. Spend your money for hi...

Last week we discussed on how sisters delay their marriage and to day let's talk about brothers too.   When you are young, marriage is a stunning and most fruitful component because it is now not actually that you each have the chance to share your young age and ancient age and share their memories with each other, marrying young. For any couple, getting married is one of the most thrilling things but some spirits and attitudes of most guys however, impede to prolong many guys to marrying early or not   getting married at all. BELOW ARE   THE REASONS WHY MANY GUYS MARRY LATE:- 1.FEAR OF COMMITMENT : This is one cause why some guys dread getting married. In this way, their mindset is "how can I be in-love with one lady, all my love and affection for the relaxation of my life?" "For the leisure of my life, I can no longer devour genuinely egusi soup." "Variety is the spice of life." Some say, "I cannot assume about waking up subsequent to th...

No relationship thrives for free. There must be something you're contributing, a problem you're solving, a need you're supplying, a value you're giving out. Love is not what makes it work. Your ability to stay relevant and useful to your partner makes it work. I advice you to first equip yourself because nobody values someone who has nothing to offer, no matter the love.

Have you ever seen or heard of an unfinished goods or product been advertised by the manufacturer? The answer is No! You know why? It is Because it has not been tested and trusted. Also, if they advertise it from the processing and producing stage the product could be hacked or imitated by competitors. Same should be applicable to a relationship. Until your relationship is ripe, don't advertise it on social media. Sometimes, there is no wisdom advertising your relationship when you have not received the blessings of your parents and pastors for marriage. Don't rush social media advert of your relationship, nurture your relationship secretly and come out victoriously and surprisely. Why exposing yourself and your partner to danger on social media? You post Proposal, post knocking of door, post engagement, post pregnancy, post a day old baby. My dear this world is far beyond our imagination and understanding. Do you even know what tomorrow holds  or do you think is everyone inclu...

You see that statement up there? Let me tell you about it. This Brother was one of the Coordinators in their fellowship. He was close to this sister and the sister too likes him just as brother in the fellowship, fervent and strong in the works of the Lord. One day, the brother visited the sister and at a time, the lady was serving the brother a soft drink when the brother grabbed her from the back and started hopping at her. The lady was taken aback as she never imagined such from the brother. The brother started forcing himself on the lady. She pleaded with him to stop the foolishness and reminded him of his position as a child of God and as a Coordinators in the fellowship. All her pleads fell on a deaf ears. She struggled to run out of the room, but the guy prevented her. At a point, she thought of a way out. She told the brother that, she will agree to have sex with him but he should go the nearby chemist shop and get a condom so she will not be at the risk of pregnancy. She said ...

A repentant, regretful heart reflects a deep desire to change and accept 100-percent ownership. The occasional misstep means your spouse is moving toward genuine change — remember progress over perfection. Notice the moments you catch them “doing it right” and then, offer them encouragement. However, when blame shifts back toward you, it’s time to pray and consider if a “heart issue” is behind those actionsand words The following list are helpful tool for discerning a repentant heart:- #Repentant people are willing to confess all their sins, not just the sins that got them into trouble. A house isn’t clean until you open every closet and sweep every corner. People who desire to be clean are completely honest about their lives. No more secrets. #Repentant people face the pain their sin caused others. They invite the victims of their sin (anyone hurt by their actions) to express the intensity of emotions that they feel—anger, hurt, sorrow, and disappointment. #Repent...

A lot of us can spend a substantial amount of time trying to look for the love that we think we’re deserving of in this life. And sometimes, if we’re lucky, we don’t have to wait so long to find that love. Whenever you do find that love, you always want to make sure that you don’t take it for granted. You always want to make sure that you fight for that love to make sure that it doesn’t go to waste. However, a lot of us make the mistake of failing to make the distinction whenever we are in the relationships that we are deserving of. If you happen to be one of those people who have trouble distinguishing the love that you are truly deserving of, then this article is for you. Don’t worry. Sometimes, people are just going to need a good old reminder. And that’s what this article aims to do. Here are a few signs that the guy that you’re with is the man that you deserve to spend the rest of your days with. #1. He doesn’t need a special occasion to remind you of how much he ...

There are many people whose beds are their main battlefield. Many people got defeated in life on their beds, while asleep. Many see so many disturbing dreams, nightmares, arrows and evil ghosts and personalities tormenting them in/ on their bed at night. Some receive regular beatings on their bed. Some are being practically raped in their dream by strange forces and they wake up to see their private parts reacting like real sex just happened. Some fight the idols, demons of their father's house in their dreams. While some win these battles, some lost these battles. As a Child of God, your bed should not be a battlefield. And if at all the devil and his cohorts brings any battle to your bed in the night while asleep, your inner man should be so much on fire to consume them.. From today, everyone reading this, over the battles of the bed, you are declared winner in Jesus name! Your sleep and dreams tonight shall be peaceful and victorious in Jesus name!

How much do you think you really know about sex? I really think you should go through this list to check how much you know about sex. Below are 25 facts about sex everyone should know The average size of a man’s penis is 5 inches to 7 inches when erect. A teaspoonful of semen contains about 5 calories. Sex works as a painkiller – especially with headaches. 60% of men get erect penis when turned on. There are 250 million sperm in a teaspoon of semen. A man ejaculates at an average speed of 28 mph. A woman’s clitoris contains over 8000 nerve fibres, almost twice of a penis. Having sex can improve your sleep cycle, lower your blood pressure and ease stress. A man approximately ejaculates 17 litres of semen in his entire life that contains about half a trillion sperm. It’s hard to pee after sex because of an antidiuretic hormone that prevents urine. Peeing after sex helps prevent urinary tract infection. The average length of a flaccid pen*s is 3.89 inches. On an ...

You see that question up there up? That is the question men ask ladies when they want them to be their wives. There is something I want to point out from that question. What I want to dwell on is the word "Will". It means , there must be a will to marry you. A willingness to marry you from that lady. It is not by forcing her, coercing her , threatening her , begging her, pestering her, beating her , buy her gifts, sending people to help you beg her, sulking her, trolling her , frightening her with dreams and visions all in the name of wanting her to marry you by fire by force. Dear guy, whenever you are going to propose marriage to a lady, remember this word " Will" You can not really win her heart until she has given you her will to marry you. Marriage is by choice, not by force. Dear princess, this relationship you are in, are you sure you are not under a spell? Are you sure it is from your will? Are you sure you are not coerced into it? ...

Relationships have always been perceived in a certain way by humans. Since time in history, the status quo is that men should be with women who are younger. In the African setting, most of our parents have a three to five year age gap where in this case our fathers are obviously the older ones.  Even in the creation story, Adam was created before Eve. Thinking about it logically, it already gives the impression that Adam was older and Eve was younger even though their ages are not talked about in any Holy Scripture. They could have been the exact same age, who knows?  This younger woman-older man dynamic is one that has been debated for some time now. With the growing number in divorce cases and broken relationships all over the world, people have started to question if some of the things they knew about love are wrong. More so when it comes to age. Is it just a number or does it play a crucial role in the dynamics of a relationship? Let’s find out:- 1. Differen...

Few years ago, a lady came to my house for some issues she was going through. Apart from those marital issues, she was also battling with epilepsy. As we were talking, she told me that, one of the things that do piss her off was the way her family members & friends use to ask her ' have you taken your drug?'. 'Have you bought your drugs?, etc. I was trying to understand why those questions were getting her angry whenever they asked her; & her reply was ' they should not call it MY DRUGS'. She said, "those drugs are just drugs, they are not my drugs. Why are they personalizing it to me as if the drugs are customized for me or as if I am the only one with such issue. I really learnt from her words. Friends, what is that challenge you are passing through presently and people are already seeing it as 'you drugs'? May be you yourself are already calling it 'my cross', 'my obot' (destiny), 'my fate', etc. I want you...

You see that statement up there? I will tell you about it. Please, read on. A married women brought a chat between her husband and his side chic to me. I saw the man saying in that chats that his wife died 7 years ago and the most painful part of it is that, this woman said, herself and the husband still had sex that morning he chatted his girlfriend that his wife is dead. The wife is now praying that the husband should die because he is calling her a dead woman while she's still alive. One thing that you can do as a married man to bring your life to ruin and bring the anger of God on your life is to deny your family. You are married; but because you still want to enjoy night clubbing, side chic(side chickens), champagne with single girls and all other youthful frivolities, you are parading yourself online as a single guy. You opened a Facebook account and you blocked your wife off it so that she won't know your activities here because you are making gulli...

1. When entering the house greet your children or even hug them. This should help develop their sense of love and self worth. 2. Be good to your neighbors and never backbite. Never speak ill of other drivers when on the road. Your children would listen, absorb and emulate. 3. When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak to them. When visiting your parents take your children with you. The more they see you take care of your parents the more they will learn to take care of you. 4. When driving them to school, don’t always play albums or CD's in the car. Rather, tell them some motivational stories yourself. This will have a greater impact – trust me! 5. Read to them a short story and even a scripture a day – it doesn’t take much time, but very good in creating strong bonds and wonderful memories. 6. Comb your hair, clean your teeth and wear presentable clothes even if sitting at home and not going out for the day. They need to learn that being cl...

This is worth reading 1.       Boy friend. This is that spirit that will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors because they'll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wanted to marry you. To cast out this spirit, you don't need to pray about it. Just quit the relationship. 2.       Engagement ring. This is that spirit that makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man that is still serving the master engaged you and when the serious suitors see the ring, they'll pass over you because something in them tells them you have been engaged. To cast out this spirit, you don't need prayers, just remove that key holder in your finger. 3.       Hard to get. This is that spirit that tells you not to accept a marriage proposal in a hurry so that the brother will not think you were too cheap or desperate. It tells you to tell him to giv...

It was around 2:15 or 2:30 in the afternoon yesterday, I was coming back from NYSC headcount at Marian in Calabar Municipal council. While I was standing to pick a cab to my house, a woman was carrying this big wooden box like tray they use in collecting bread from bakery. She was coming from a bakery. She was waiting for a bus to take her to Atimbo. As soon as a bus came shouting 'Atimbo, Atimbo' ,this woman ran to board the bus & she asked the conductor to open the boot so she can drop the bread tray in there. As the conductor was trying to help her take the bread tray off her head into the bus boot, suddenly, we just saw that the wrapper this woman tied around her waist came down falling. To the amazement of all lookers and passengers in the bus, this woman was not wearing any under wear. No pant! No tight! Apart from the T.shirt she wore to cover her braless breasts, she had nothing under her. That she was embarrassed is an understatement. Within 5 minutes, she...

Apologies are a funny thing. Everyone likes to get them. When you need to give them, things get tricky. As soon as your ego gets involved, you’re in trouble. And let’s be honest, it always gets involved. Apologizing means admitting you’re wrong, and no one likes to be wrong. Apologies also force you to be vulnerable with your loved ones, and vulnerability is scary. It means you’re emotionally undressing yourself. You’re opening yourself up to danger (or so we think). So when it comes to saying “sorry,” you may offer up the white flag in the most non-committal, inauthentic way possible. If you’ve ever said, “I’m sorry, okay?” you know what I’m talking about. Then there are the “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apologies. It’s tough to say which is worse. Apologies aren’t easy to give but they are one of the most powerful tools for communication at your disposal in any relationship. Apologies allow both parties to feel heard and expressed. They also open up a dialogue for yo...