The mother-in-law of this lady was with them to take care of the new baby boy. As the mama (Mother-in-law ) was bathing for this 9 days old baby boy, I guess the baby had an erection. Mama saw it and was happy or something like that. Then, she started saying, hmmm, akwa awuden, (Great man). In my mind, I was happy to hear that. All of a sudden, I heard this their mother-in-law started saying, "akpara ke afo do o" , "akpara ke afo do o" (meaning: You are a prostitute). I was so furious in my spirit. I don't joke with words. I moved closer to the mother-in-law and I said, mama, why are you calling this your grandchild Ashawo? What you are saying is very bad and wrong ma. You are sowing an evil seeds into the life of this innocent boy. Is it a crime that he has an erection? She looked at me like, why are you so concerned with what I am just using to joke with my grandson? She said I am just teasing him because I saw him having an erection. I did not mean it. ...

1. When entering the house greet your children or even hug them. This should help develop their sense of love and self worth. 2. Be good to your neighbors and never backbite. Never speak ill of other drivers when on the road. Your children would listen, absorb and emulate. 3. When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak to them. When visiting your parents take your children with you. The more they see you take care of your parents the more they will learn to take care of you. 4. When driving them to school, don’t always play albums or CD's in the car. Rather, tell them some motivational stories yourself. This will have a greater impact – trust me! 5. Read to them a short story and even a scripture a day – it doesn’t take much time, but very good in creating strong bonds and wonderful memories. 6. Comb your hair, clean your teeth and wear presentable clothes even if sitting at home and not going out for the day. They need to learn that being cl...