𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 : 1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave him in peace 4. Don't check his phone (Messages) 5. Don't bother him with his movements 6. Clean the house 7. Wash his clothes 8. Always pray for him. So what's so hard about that? 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 : It's really not too difficult but... To make a wife happy, a husband only needs to be: 1. A friend 2. A companion 3. A lover 4. A brother 5. A father 6. A master 7. A chef 8. An electrician 9. A plumber 10. A mechanic 11. A carpenter 12. A decorator 13. A stylist 14. A sexologist 15. A gynecologist 16. A psychologist 17. A pest exterminator 18. A psychiatrist 19. A healer/prayer 20. A good listener 21. An organizer 22. A good father 23. Very clean 24. Sympathetic 25. Athletic 26. Warm 27. Attentive 28. Gallant 29. Intelligent 30. Funny 31. Creative 32....

Having vagina, boobs, and hips doesn't make you a woman. A woman is the one who feeds a man with encouragement and ideas A woman is the one who helps a man to save and invest wisely . A woman does not run her mouth with sarcasm and insult just to prove a point, rather her words are gracious and can heal a broken heart . A woman is the one that knows when to talk and to keep Quiet. A woman is the one that doesn't leak secret. A woman is the one that is content with what she has, and not the one that sells her self for material things. A woman is a manager, a caretaker, a womb that can nature and birth destinies . A woman doesn't do trending things, but she is reserved and has a taste of a Queen. A woman doesn't look down on any man because of his present state of life and financial status, rather she encourages any man to get better. A woman is the one that does not just bears babies, but bear ideas and inspiration anytime, anywhere. A woman is the one a man can cry on h...

Having vagina, boobs, and hips doesn't make you a woman. A woman is the one who feeds a man with encouragement and ideas  A woman is the one who helps a man to save and invest wisely . A woman does not run her mouth with sarcasm and insult just to prove a point, rather her words are gracious and can heal a broken heart . A woman is the one that knows when to talk and to keep Quiet. A woman is the one that doesn't leak secret.  A woman is the one that is content with what she has, and not the one that sells her self for material things. A woman is a manager, a caretaker a womb that can nature and birth destinies . A woman doesn't do trending things, but she is reserved and has a taste of a Queen. A woman doesn't look down on any man because of his present state of life and financial status, rather she encourages any man to get better. A woman is the one that does not just bears babies, but bear ideas and inspiration anytime, anywhere. A woman  is the one a man can cry on...

Once upon a time a beautiful girl got tired of her married life and wanted to murder her spouse. One morning she ran to her mother and say to her " mother, I am tired of my husband I can no longer support his nonsense. I want to kill him but I am afraid Law of the land will hold me responsible, can you please help me, mother?" The mother answered:- Yes my daughter I can help you, but, there is a little task attached. The daughter asked "what task? I am willing and ready to assume any task attached in order to get him out" OK, said the mother. 1.. You will have to make peace with him, so that no one will suspect you when he is dead. 2.. You will have to beautify yourself in order to look young and attractive to him. 3.. You have to take good care of him and be very nice and appreciative to him. 4.. You have to be patient, loving and less jealous, have more listening ears, be more respectful and obedient. 5. Spend your money for hi...

Give her royal estate unto another that is better than she. Esther 1:19. Vashi the queen was asked to be brought before the king with the royal crown to show the people and the princes her beauty for she was fair to be looked upon. But, unfortunately, she blantly refused and this caused her her royal crown, her place and her queenly position. Ladies in the house, whether married or single. Can I tell you the truth mas? If you don't hold tight your marriage or your relationship; some ladies and powers are waiting to take your queenly position. Do you know that some women are not happy that you are happy in that marriage. Some are obsessed with your husband and don't mind being the second wife to him.  Some thought they would end up their lives with him but unfortunately life happened and it did not work out the way they planned it. Even the enemy is planning to displace you in that marriage. Now don't you think we all need wisdom and more wisdom to win? some...

It was around 2:15 or 2:30 in the afternoon yesterday, I was coming back from NYSC headcount at Marian in Calabar Municipal council. While I was standing to pick a cab to my house, a woman was carrying this big wooden box like tray they use in collecting bread from bakery. She was coming from a bakery. She was waiting for a bus to take her to Atimbo. As soon as a bus came shouting 'Atimbo, Atimbo' ,this woman ran to board the bus & she asked the conductor to open the boot so she can drop the bread tray in there. As the conductor was trying to help her take the bread tray off her head into the bus boot, suddenly, we just saw that the wrapper this woman tied around her waist came down falling. To the amazement of all lookers and passengers in the bus, this woman was not wearing any under wear. No pant! No tight! Apart from the T.shirt she wore to cover her braless breasts, she had nothing under her. That she was embarrassed is an understatement. Within 5 minutes, she...

For the last several years, the world has done all it could to bastardize, re-define and pervert the issue of sex and the church has largely kept silent or give conflicting answers to the ungodly ways of the world. Majority of the church, including her topmost leaders have been confused about the relationship between sexuality and spirituality, thereby failing to provide clear teachings and examples to the church of God. Quite sad, that the moral apostasy of the world have gradually crept into high places in the church. Some sections of the church today see nothing wrong in homosexuality, lesbianism, pornography, rape, masturbation and all kinds of sexual pervasions, which in turn have eroded the spiritual impact of the church and turned her largely to social and secular entities. It’s time to go back to the Bible and seek the mind of God concerning sexuality and spirituality afresh. A.      Biblical Foundation :– Gen. 2:25; 4:1; 1 Samuel ...

Many couples fear infidelity and unfaithfulness in their partners because this has been established, over the years, as a major destroyer of marriages. What results from this is an undue vigilance and suspicion that a partner might be cheating with another man/woman, whereas the relationship is getting hit in other places that would not be noticed until the dent becomes too bad to be fixed. If you are married, in a relationship or looking forward to getting into one someday, here are five things to watch out for, because they might just be as terrible as infidelity or even worse: 1. Holding In Feelings: While heavy conflict is exhausting in a relationship, it usually comes as a result of distance and disengagement. Where partners choose to not express and discuss their issues, the end of that relationship might just be getting closer than they think. Partners act differently when they choose to bury their feelings. They make themselves unavailable to each other which ...

A lady friend of mine narrated her relationship ordeal to me how she has been co-inhabiting with her boyfriend who is always found of dishing domestic violence to her. She told me of one particular scene. They had misunderstanding, she begged the guy. He refused to accept, but left the room for her. He came back at night, this lady was already sleeping. This guy in anger, poured two buckets of water on her while she was still on the bed. She stood up to behold the wonder very well. To her amazement, this guy started beating her with blow till she started bleeding from mouth and nose. She screamed for help and people came to her rescue. She said she was rushed to the hospital. She spent that night at the hospital. The guy said it was over between them. She said , after she recovered, a week later, she started begging the guy to take her back, that she's still in love with him. The guy objected to her pleads. This lady said, she bought 2,000 Naira call card and sent it to t...

Last month , a pastor friend of mine was watching a movie together with his wife. I visited and also watch some part of the movie with them. We saw where this cute guy was proposing to a lady , he knelt down and gave her a flower, and a ring. His wife said, ' Mine, you did not propose to me with a flower oh. You did not make me feel the trill of receiving flower oh . You only proposed with a new white Bible , Bible quotation, and you used Basic Concept of Economics." We all laughed over it very seriously but my friend was short of words. Then I intruded and replied her that , the Bible says "The grass withers, the FLOWER fades, But the word of our God stands forever.” ( Isaiah 40:8). Immediately I said that my friend jumped up and hugged me, thanking me for belling him out. and we all laughed. The reason why the marriage will last is that, it was founded on the Word of God , and not on flower We all laughed on it. This is just for the fun of it. I...

I cringed today when a man said if his wife does something he ‘commands’ her not to do, he'd send her out of his house back to her parents; that it's very wrong for a woman to disobey her husband no matter what. Well, I couldn't hold my chill, I opposed him passionately and he resorted to calling me a kid; “You won't understand till you get married.” That's always how they sound. Very manipulative old folks. Please single guys, when you wanna get married, just remind yourself that the woman you're getting married to will be your life partner, not your servant. You ain't doing her a favor by getting married to her, so don't ever feel that sending her back to her parents means she'll die or lose her womanhood. Your wife is not your errand girl, she's like a colleague and she's important like you in that marriage, so you don't command her to do things, you don't just give orders, No! Both of you are to reach a stand...

Most relationships and Marriages are destroyed because of pride. Do you know why? Some Ladies find it so difficult to apologize to their partners when they are wrong. My dear Please try to be a peace maker even when you know you are not the one at fault. Let peace reign first. Later,one of those happy moments you use to be together, call him,Let him understand that he was wrong in what he did, I bet you, he must say "am Sorry Immediately and will even Love you more and more. As a lady,the way you want your house to be that's how it's going to be. Some Ladies will say "If he did not apologize,Let him come and touch me nah" My dear if you don't allow him,he will do it outside and last last,he will bring disease and give you. So now tell me Who Loose? Don't mind those Ladies who gives you wrong advice telling you to forget that man that he must come back to beg you.They are "HOME BREAKERS". If they are in your shoes they will be t...

One of the ways God has programmed speed to answered prayer in the realm of the spirit is through PRAYER OF AGREEMENT. The scripture says in Matthew 18:19 Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. It’s quite unfortunate that many married couples don’t take advantage of this blessing,and they begin to lament that their prayers are being delayed. The devil, very cunning a man knowing the ignorance of men decided to take advantage , He will ensure that husband and wife never pray together and agree together in oneness of heart ,its so unfortunate ,that is the reason things are slowed down in the realm of the spirit. It is either the husband wants to pray but the wife is not willing, or it is either the wife wants to pray but the husband is not willing. You will hear words like ‘’ continue I will join you , “ please don’t disturb me" "Akam ado utom ibaan” (It's a woman...

Most of the time we believe mothers-in-law always have a bad perception of the women who date their sons. This is however not the case as they are just misunderstood. It's natural for any woman to inwardly or outwardly express her fear of losing her son to another lady who she hardly knows. What even worries her the most is whether she will still be respected and remain important in her son's life or not. To iron out these fears and suspicions, try out these simple ways to quickly develop a strong bond with your man's mother:- 1) Give praises to her son: Instead of constantly complaining about your husband's frustrating quirks and messy habits, take every chance to tell your mother-in-law what a great guy your husband is. With this, she will be happy to hear that her son is loved and appreciated. Nothing will ever break your bond with her. 2) Go with the flow: The biggest frustration many ladies have with their mothers-in-law is not doing things...

A Beloved sister was sharing with me how a woman who makes her hair for her was reported to moved out of her husband's house for some months and she came back later. She told this sister that, she does not deal with her husband immediately the man offends her. She said, if the husband offends her today, she might not do or say anything about the offense now until June or August. That's when she will now deal with the husband. She added that, she has several ways of dealing with the husband. The painful part of it is that, the husband won't be able to understand the rationale behind the wickedness and maltreatment the wife is melting out to him. It is after much asking, that, the wife will now say, it was because of so so so and so thing you said to me that day 3 months ago, that I am doing this thing I am doing now to teach you lessons and deal with you. The husband would say, 'why can't you bring it up when it happened and let me apologize or tell you the...

1. RECONCILIATION SEX: Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and diffusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximizing it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict. 2. HEALING SEX: There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex. Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%. 3. PUNISHMENT SEX: When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless a...