JUST FOR YOU   I love you doesn't mean I want to marry you I love you doesn't mean I can't breathe without you I love you doesn't mean I want to spend the rest of my life with you I love you doesn't mean we have to be together I love you doesn't mean we should get married I love you doesn't mean I will always be there for you I love you doesn't mean I need you I love you doesn't mean there won't be opposition's trials and temptation But I love you and I will always love for the little things you do for me, I love you despite the ups and downs   Thanks for coming into my life I LOVE YOU 

Have you ever seen or heard of an unfinished goods or product been advertised by the manufacturer? The answer is No! You know why? It is Because it has not been tested and trusted. Also, if they advertise it from the processing and producing stage the product could be hacked or imitated by competitors. Same should be applicable to a relationship. Until your relationship is ripe, don't advertise it on social media. Sometimes, there is no wisdom advertising your relationship when you have not received the blessings of your parents and pastors for marriage. Don't rush social media advert of your relationship, nurture your relationship secretly and come out victoriously and surprisely. Why exposing yourself and your partner to danger on social media? You post Proposal, post knocking of door, post engagement, post pregnancy, post a day old baby. My dear this world is far beyond our imagination and understanding. Do you even know what tomorrow holds  or do you think is everyone inclu

There are many people whose beds are their main battlefield. Many people got defeated in life on their beds, while asleep. Many see so many disturbing dreams, nightmares, arrows and evil ghosts and personalities tormenting them in/ on their bed at night. Some receive regular beatings on their bed. Some are being practically raped in their dream by strange forces and they wake up to see their private parts reacting like real sex just happened. Some fight the idols, demons of their father's house in their dreams. While some win these battles, some lost these battles. As a Child of God, your bed should not be a battlefield. And if at all the devil and his cohorts brings any battle to your bed in the night while asleep, your inner man should be so much on fire to consume them.. From today, everyone reading this, over the battles of the bed, you are declared winner in Jesus name! Your sleep and dreams tonight shall be peaceful and victorious in Jesus name!

Give her royal estate unto another that is better than she. Esther 1:19. Vashi the queen was asked to be brought before the king with the royal crown to show the people and the princes her beauty for she was fair to be looked upon. But, unfortunately, she blantly refused and this caused her her royal crown, her place and her queenly position. Ladies in the house, whether married or single. Can I tell you the truth mas? If you don't hold tight your marriage or your relationship; some ladies and powers are waiting to take your queenly position. Do you know that some women are not happy that you are happy in that marriage. Some are obsessed with your husband and don't mind being the second wife to him.  Some thought they would end up their lives with him but unfortunately life happened and it did not work out the way they planned it. Even the enemy is planning to displace you in that marriage. Now don't you think we all need wisdom and more wisdom to win? some

Relationships have always been perceived in a certain way by humans. Since time in history, the status quo is that men should be with women who are younger. In the African setting, most of our parents have a three to five year age gap where in this case our fathers are obviously the older ones.  Even in the creation story, Adam was created before Eve. Thinking about it logically, it already gives the impression that Adam was older and Eve was younger even though their ages are not talked about in any Holy Scripture. They could have been the exact same age, who knows?  This younger woman-older man dynamic is one that has been debated for some time now. With the growing number in divorce cases and broken relationships all over the world, people have started to question if some of the things they knew about love are wrong. More so when it comes to age. Is it just a number or does it play a crucial role in the dynamics of a relationship? Let’s find out:- 1. Different prefere

I am seeing sperm in my urine. My friends said I must have sex so all these can stop. Please help me baby and it is only you I can have sex with. Please help me. You see that statement up there? That was what a guy told one of my daughters in the Lord just to persuade her to give him sex. This lady came to my inbox to ask me if it is true a guy can be going through such pain because of lack of sex. She was almost pitying the guy. I had to tell her that the guy is a full blown liar trying to deceive gullible girls and lure them into satisfying his sexual urge. We all have this penis. Stop doing as if your own penis is different from what all of us have under us. Young girls, are you reading this post now? Let me tell you the truth, except a guy is on strong weed, masturbating or watching pornography, it is not possible to have erection for 3 hours at a stretch. You see why it is good for you girls not to be too secretive? Thank God this girl confided in me and I wa

It was around 2:15 or 2:30 in the afternoon yesterday, I was coming back from NYSC headcount at Marian in Calabar Municipal council. While I was standing to pick a cab to my house, a woman was carrying this big wooden box like tray they use in collecting bread from bakery. She was coming from a bakery. She was waiting for a bus to take her to Atimbo. As soon as a bus came shouting 'Atimbo, Atimbo' ,this woman ran to board the bus & she asked the conductor to open the boot so she can drop the bread tray in there. As the conductor was trying to help her take the bread tray off her head into the bus boot, suddenly, we just saw that the wrapper this woman tied around her waist came down falling. To the amazement of all lookers and passengers in the bus, this woman was not wearing any under wear. No pant! No tight! Apart from the T.shirt she wore to cover her braless breasts, she had nothing under her. That she was embarrassed is an understatement. Within 5 minutes, she

When a woman marries a man because of money and physical beauty and a man marries a woman because of beauty, forgotten that Is better with Idea woman and man and have peace at home . Although handsome men and beautiful ladies is very good, but let it not be because of the outside beauty alone but inside beauty as well because that is what made you who u really are, because someone like me I always cherish beautiful children with good character, God made men and women physically beautiful so that men will appreciate his hand work and give glory to him, the beauty God gave us is not what makes us wrong man and woman, it is our decisions, our attitudes, our lifestyles, our believes, if a man decide to follow the ways of God and fear him God will beautify him and distinguish him from others and if a woman decided to use her beauty, her body to serve God, God will make her a virtuous woman blessed among others, the problems many women have is that they don't know the blessedness of b

For the last several years, the world has done all it could to bastardize, re-define and pervert the issue of sex and the church has largely kept silent or give conflicting answers to the ungodly ways of the world. Majority of the church, including her topmost leaders have been confused about the relationship between sexuality and spirituality, thereby failing to provide clear teachings and examples to the church of God. Quite sad, that the moral apostasy of the world have gradually crept into high places in the church. Some sections of the church today see nothing wrong in homosexuality, lesbianism, pornography, rape, masturbation and all kinds of sexual pervasions, which in turn have eroded the spiritual impact of the church and turned her largely to social and secular entities. It’s time to go back to the Bible and seek the mind of God concerning sexuality and spirituality afresh. A.      Biblical Foundation :– Gen. 2:25; 4:1; 1 Samuel 1:19; Eccl. 9:9; 1

Many people believe that, ladies are weak.They believe and make you to believe that, ladies are powerless compared to their male counterparts. But that's not true. God does not create powerless people. It is so unfortunate that many ladies believe in this lie and they go through life looking and acting powerless ,with pity written all over their faces. Some who are aware that they have powers don't know where powers reside in them. Some think their power is in the breasts and big bumbum. They feel as long as they can get any guy to sleep with them by enticing him with their breasts and bumbum, then, that makes them powerful.If all the power you have is the one in your breasts and bumbum, you are indeed powerless as a lady! You know why? Your breasts power will reduce as you get married and breastfeed. Your bumbum power will reduce as you age. But I want to show you 6 powers you carry as a lady, that, if you tap into this powers, you can change your life, change your fa

Last month , a pastor friend of mine was watching a movie together with his wife. I visited and also watch some part of the movie with them. We saw where this cute guy was proposing to a lady , he knelt down and gave her a flower, and a ring. His wife said, ' Mine, you did not propose to me with a flower oh. You did not make me feel the trill of receiving flower oh . You only proposed with a new white Bible , Bible quotation, and you used Basic Concept of Economics." We all laughed over it very seriously but my friend was short of words. Then I intruded and replied her that , the Bible says "The grass withers, the FLOWER fades, But the word of our God stands forever.” ( Isaiah 40:8). Immediately I said that my friend jumped up and hugged me, thanking me for belling him out. and we all laughed. The reason why the marriage will last is that, it was founded on the Word of God , and not on flower We all laughed on it. This is just for the fun of it. I

Focus and concentration are salient words in achieving success in life. And one thing that really fuels up focus is clarity of purpose .Your inner agility to concentrate on your topmost priority per time and see it through, determines how much you can succeed in life. Proverb 4:25 Let your eyes look straight ahead and your eyelids look right before you,   Ponder on the path of your feet and let your ways be established don’t turn right or the left. As you go on the journey of success, I beseech you, be focused. Distractions would pop up but try to focus. Try to list out those things that distracts you , it could be your phone, could be habits like too much talking, procrastination, lack of time management, families and friends , television ( zee world) could be house chores, could be children anything that takes away your concentrations . Look out for it and deliberately deal with it. You also need to develop the habits of self-disciple to focus. Doing what you have

I cringed today when a man said if his wife does something he ‘commands’ her not to do, he'd send her out of his house back to her parents; that it's very wrong for a woman to disobey her husband no matter what. Well, I couldn't hold my chill, I opposed him passionately and he resorted to calling me a kid; “You won't understand till you get married.” That's always how they sound. Very manipulative old folks. Please single guys, when you wanna get married, just remind yourself that the woman you're getting married to will be your life partner, not your servant. You ain't doing her a favor by getting married to her, so don't ever feel that sending her back to her parents means she'll die or lose her womanhood. Your wife is not your errand girl, she's like a colleague and she's important like you in that marriage, so you don't command her to do things, you don't just give orders, No! Both of you are to reach a stand

I have seen many marriages that should not be that are existing today just because a false prophet used his prophetic gimmicks to match make those couples. I have seen people who did not marry the person they really love. They ended up marrying someone they have no feelings , no passion, and no connection with, just because they wanted to obey their prophets. I blame the prophets ,but I blame those couples more. Dear Prophet & pastors, it is not your duty to choose who your members should marry for them. Yes, you can guide them. Yes, you can teach them. You might even be used by God to introduce them to each other, but sir, never impose a brother on a sister. Never command your Spiritual daughter to marry your spiritual son by fire by force. You know why sir? It will back fire! Also sir, if people reject who you forced them to marry, don't threaten to curse them with your calling. One prophet threatened his daughter in the Lord like that and said, 'If you marr