Having vagina, boobs, and hips doesn't make you a woman. A woman is the one who feeds a man with encouragement and ideas A woman is the one who helps a man to save and invest wisely . A woman does not run her mouth with sarcasm and insult just to prove a point, rather her words are gracious and can heal a broken heart . A woman is the one that knows when to talk and to keep Quiet. A woman is the one that doesn't leak secret. A woman is the one that is content with what she has, and not the one that sells her self for material things. A woman is a manager, a caretaker, a womb that can nature and birth destinies . A woman doesn't do trending things, but she is reserved and has a taste of a Queen. A woman doesn't look down on any man because of his present state of life and financial status, rather she encourages any man to get better. A woman is the one that does not just bears babies, but bear ideas and inspiration anytime, anywhere. A woman is the one a man can cry on h...

Positive peer pressure will almost always push a person to discover their capabilities and strengths. On the other hand, negative peer pressure can lead to habits that are both cyclical and damaging. Alcohol and drugs, for example, are usually used in group settings. Early drug abuse often includes tobacco, alcohol, inhalants, marijuana, and prescription drugs such as sleeping pills or anti-anxiety medications. The National Household Survey on Drug Abuse shows that abuse of drugs in late childhood and early adolescence is associated with long-term drug involvement. Avoiding substance abuse as young adults is paramount to preventing detrimental habits later in life.

I remember a guy when I was still a teenager. He told me as at that time about his sexual adventure and recklessness. As at the time I was 17 years old, this guy was 18 years old and he had had sex with 65 ladies at that time; both married and single ladies. I shook my head for him and I asked in amazement how he was able to build such huge records of sin. He told me, 'I don't zip my zip and many times, I don't wear pant or boxer. I tuck out my shirt always, so it can cover the unzipped zips of my trouser. Dave, this is what we call 'k'usôp usôp ' .( 'ku'sôp usôp means, something that will fasten your work). I wept for him and he eventually became a shadow of himself. Till now, he could not 'stand' up in life. What a pity! Many guys/men/boys go about today with "Unzipped zips'. Though they zipped up the zips of their physical trousers but in their mindset and mentality, they go about with unzipped zips. When intentionally you don't z...

Many couples fear infidelity and unfaithfulness in their partners because this has been established, over the years, as a major destroyer of marriages. What results from this is an undue vigilance and suspicion that a partner might be cheating with another man/woman, whereas the relationship is getting hit in other places that would not be noticed until the dent becomes too bad to be fixed. If you are married, in a relationship or looking forward to getting into one someday, here are five things to watch out for, because they might just be as terrible as infidelity or even worse: 1. Holding In Feelings: While heavy conflict is exhausting in a relationship, it usually comes as a result of distance and disengagement. Where partners choose to not express and discuss their issues, the end of that relationship might just be getting closer than they think. Partners act differently when they choose to bury their feelings. They make themselves unavailable to each other which ...

Marriage is a journey of two people from different backgrounds, with different temperaments,with different ideologies, different beliefs, different behavior and character and heading for a God given destination. One of the greatest thing that Can happen to you is getting married in God's will.You will eat the fruit of it forever and ever. "A bad marriage is the junior brother of hell fire". Your destiny is truncated to a very Large extent when you marry the wrong person. As singles you must ask your self ,why do I want to get married? Marriage entered into for wrong motive can never last. Many Singles want to get married because of sex. So after sex, what next? Some desire to be married because of peer pressure and family pressure, Search your heart very well and ensure the reason why you want to marry is not out of place. Now you have understood the concepts of marriage, the next question is Who should I marry? Marry a man/woman who is GOD FEARING Not every man ...

1. RECONCILIATION SEX: Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and diffusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximizing it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict. 2. HEALING SEX: There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex. Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%. 3. PUNISHMENT SEX: When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless a...

A psychiatrist, Dr Maymunah Kadiri on Saturday advised married women to have regular sex with their spouses in order to prevent depression and gain happiness. Depression is a common mental disorder that causes people to experience depressed mood, loss of interest or pleasure, feelings of guilt or low self-worth, disturbed sleep or appetite, low energy, and poor concentration. Kadiri, the Medical Director of Pinnacle Medical Services gave the advice in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Lagos. Pinnacle is a health and wellness center for psychological, behavioral, and mental health related issues. According to her, sex is not just to nourish a woman’s body, but it is also beneficial to her mental health. “As women, there is need for us to make our spouses our best friends if we want to be mentally healthy. “Studies have shown that women who have more active sex and in long term relationships were less likely to be depressed than women who went without sex. ...

The basic fate of an intimate relationship is marriage, not a single lady wants to be used and dumped just like trash but to be married to the guy she has dated for long. Guys find little things 'wife material' in a woman. Here is what a lady should do to ensure she is preferred for marriage. 1. Stop nagging: Most men don't like ladies who nag a lot, avoid nagging like a baby or a teen in a relationship. Men expect maturity in a lady looking forward to marriage. Avoid nagging at all cost till he says 'yes I do'. 2. Avoid partying all night with your friends : A lady mature enough for marriage do not party every weekend. Instead, find yourself working hard to earn your own income because every man wants a hardworking lady that can stand on her own. 3. Support him whenever he needs your support : Men do not like to ask for any kind of support from a lady until they are pushed to the extreme and they don't have an option. If he request for ...

Although it is said that men cheat more than women, today the ratio is almost level. Just like men have different justifications for cheating, women too cheat for different reasons. Here are 3 types of women who are likely to cheat:- 1. The money lover: The money or gift lover is the number one on the list because most women cheat because of this 'weakness' in them. We all love money and would wish to have lots of it but for such women, they are capable of getting into other relationships just because of finances. This is the type that sleeps with any man as long as there is monetary payback. 2. The 'party animal': No party passes without her having to attend. I don't mean every woman who goes to a party is a cheat but the 'party animal' is highly likely to cheat. No weekend finds her in the house, instead, she will be out drinking and dancing with other men till morning. The drinks she takes could be sponsored by abled men who would the...

Many a time , I remember hearing that it is better for a lady to marry a man reasonably older than her so that she do not end up looking older than him. The source of this advice I do not know, well, we can easily classify it as one of old wives’ tales. There is hardly any girl growing up in this country who didn't hear that. Many are still guided by it till today , others couldn't be bothered. However, things have changed drastically, these days we have women who are far older than their husbands and are happily married. But if women tend to look older than their husbands even when they are age mates or younger than their husbands, what happens to women who are already older than their husbands even before they marry? I have seen young women transform into old women soon after they become wives and mothers. When they step out with their husband they look more like the aunty or even the mother. To many it is normal, and even ‘expected’, but I have often wondere...