A psychiatrist, Dr Maymunah
Kadiri on Saturday advised married women to have regular sex with their spouses
in order to prevent depression and gain happiness. Depression is a common
mental disorder that causes people to experience depressed mood, loss of
interest or pleasure, feelings of guilt or low self-worth, disturbed sleep or
appetite, low energy, and poor concentration. Kadiri, the Medical Director of
Pinnacle Medical Services gave the advice in an interview with the News Agency
of Nigeria (NAN) in Lagos. Pinnacle is a health and wellness center for
psychological, behavioral, and mental health related issues.
According to her, sex is not just
to nourish a woman’s body, but it is also beneficial to her mental health.
“As women, there is need for us
to make our spouses our best friends if we want to be mentally healthy.
“Studies have shown that women
who have more active sex and in long term relationships were less likely to be
depressed than women who went without sex.
“So, more sex is important and
essential. It is a remedy to curing women from having persistent headache.
“Low sexual drive, which leads to
depression, should be looked into. A woman can be depressed when that sexual
drive that she used to have is no more there.
“Frequent active sex can play
good roles toward women’s sense of well being and quality of life,’’ Kadiri
said. She explained that sex was not just for procreation and to have children,
adding that it could create bonding, good companionship and sound sleep. Kadiri,
popularly called ‘celebrity shrink’, urged women dealing with depression to
frequently indulge in sex, while boosting their self-esteem. She also advised
women who are over-weight to also involve in active sex, saying doing so will
boost endomorphism which are happy hormones.
“The happy hormones will make
them lose some calories as well as sleep better.
”Orgasms trigger the release of
endomorphism which are happy hormones secreted by the brain that act as effective
painkillers,’’ she said. She added that sex was not only beneficial to the men,
but especially to women because it was capable of freeing them from stress.
Sex accordingly. (For married
ones only). A lot of people don't associate sex with God - they associate it
with Satan and darkness, as if sex is not holy .Sex is holy within marriage,
and there is no prescribed style.
Not discussing sex in a
relationship leads to divorce!! I have counseled women who've complained: my
husband treats me as if I were his sister. There was one who told me: I am
tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary. I told her she was lucky to be
getting sex fortnightly, since some wives only get it on big days, like
elections and Christmas and birthdays, Many husbands leave their wives
to seek sexual pleasures in Avenues . Have you ever asked yourself what those
women have that you don't. Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with
their panties. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your
bum touch your husband.
Today you find men going out of
their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go
to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties
because their wives hide it from them. Marriage is about being free with your
body in front of your partner.
A woman should parade naked and
do some modeling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't
know what their husband's penises looks like. She only feels it when he enters
her. They've never touched it, let alone seen it, because the husband switches
off the lights before undressing. A penis is a wife's toy - she is supposed to
play with it.
I blame couples for not making
time for sex and complaining about being tired after a day's work. You find
many couples who've been sexually starved for years. God created sex for
procreation and also for pleasure. You can't marry and not have a good time in
bed.
WHO SAID YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT
NIGHT?
Why can't you drive home during
lunch and have a quickie with your wife? We're all equal in sex - it's not just
about a woman satisfying a man. You have to satisfy each other. Have you ever
seen a woman who has been satisfied? Have u noticed how she glows and becomes
energetic?
May God Bless you.
This is the Whole Truth, Nothing
But The Truth. Once you read this you have to keep it going. Age has nothing to
do with sex. The older u are the more u should enjoy it but do it in God's way.
Make sure your spouse reads this.
Also Send to all your married friends, Grandmas & grandpas send it to your
married children. You may just be saving a marriage from divorce.
Let LOVE & SEX fill your
marriage.