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RELATIONSHIP AN HARD WORK


Relationships are hard work. Though they are rewarding, they do require work, effort, and sacrifice.  Why do they say "I'm in a committed relationship". It's because relationships take commitment. When things may go wrong, one has to stay committed to the partnership they are in.  In a sense, relationships are like investments. The more you put in it, the more you get out of it. It's like a boat, if you aren't rowing, putting in action, you won't get anywhere. It's like a garden, if you don't tend to it, and feed it with love, what will the plants produce?



Most people pursue or get into a relationship because they want someone to love them, they want to be shown off. Few go into it thinking, what can I do to ensure this last? What can I invest into this account in hope of a better future? What work must I put into rowing to ensure this boat goes in the direction I want it to? What can I do for this garden to ensure fruits come about in the required seasons? How can I work to love this person that I'm in a committed relationship with?  Relationships are very possible to last forever, but we must put in the work.

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A GENERATION WORST THAN SODOM AND GOMORRAH

Sodom and Gomorrah seems to be more decent than this generation. Criminals are now celebrated as Yahoo boys... It is no longer prostitute but slay queen... It is no longer bleaching but glowing... no longer ritualist. Blood money is now Yahoo plus... Drug dealers are now called hustlers... An harlot is now a runs girl... Church workers now comment on immorality post in the name of freaky-freaky... It is no longer fornication but love making... Even rudeness is now savage... pride is now small girls with big God... Gambling has been upgraded to bet naija. Pornography is now recognize as BBNIJA... Premarital sex is now the main prove of love... Can you see how they have upgraded human killings to be politics? Most of these evil acts are done because of grace message. Virginity that was the most expensive asset is now cheaper than a plate of food. I have seen ladies who denial guys access to their ATM pin, account balance, their birth certificate, but yet give them easy access to ...

Making partners happy in a relationship

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 : 1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave him in peace 4. Don't check his phone (Messages) 5. Don't bother him with his movements 6. Clean the house 7. Wash his clothes 8. Always pray for him. So what's so hard about that? 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 : It's really not too difficult but... To make a wife happy, a husband only needs to be: 1. A friend 2. A companion 3. A lover 4. A brother 5. A father 6. A master 7. A chef 8. An electrician 9. A plumber 10. A mechanic 11. A carpenter 12. A decorator 13. A stylist 14. A sexologist 15. A gynecologist 16. A psychologist 17. A pest exterminator 18. A psychiatrist 19. A healer/prayer 20. A good listener 21. An organizer 22. A good father 23. Very clean 24. Sympathetic 25. Athletic 26. Warm 27. Attentive 28. Gallant 29. Intelligent 30. Funny 31. Creative 32....

DISAPPEARANCE

Its disappeared, yes its went with the owl. its wasn't empty, but in form of it, it came nothing. odd I couldn't breathe but just keep an open eye with an idea of something different even though disappearance was the perfect conversation to be certain at this moment, I took myself away of that aura of unnecessary emotion and laid myself out with beautiful forwarding steps.
JUST FOR YOU   I love you doesn't mean I want to marry you I love you doesn't mean I can't breathe without you I love you doesn't mean I want to spend the rest of my life with you I love you doesn't mean we have to be together I love you doesn't mean we should get married I love you doesn't mean I will always be there for you I love you doesn't mean I need you I love you doesn't mean there won't be opposition's trials and temptation But I love you and I will always love for the little things you do for me, I love you despite the ups and downs   Thanks for coming into my life I LOVE YOU 

SHE WOULD LIKELY CHEAT IF SHE LOVES THESE THREE THINGS

Although it is said that men cheat more than women, today the ratio is almost level. Just like men have different justifications for cheating, women too cheat for different reasons. Here are 3 types of women who are likely to cheat:- 1. The money lover: The money or gift lover is the number one on the list because most women cheat because of this 'weakness' in them. We all love money and would wish to have lots of it but for such women, they are capable of getting into other relationships just because of finances. This is the type that sleeps with any man as long as there is monetary payback. 2. The 'party animal': No party passes without her having to attend. I don't mean every woman who goes to a party is a cheat but the 'party animal' is highly likely to cheat. No weekend finds her in the house, instead, she will be out drinking and dancing with other men till morning. The drinks she takes could be sponsored by abled men who would the...