Being in a relationship
is an amazing experience, yet there comes a time when even the most patient,
caring, and loving partner just loses his temper. Women usually don’t realize
that some of the small, quirky habits they have actually drive men insane. And
the deeper you explore various female habits that irritate men, the more issues
come to light. Some of them are quite obvious like being late all the time,
while others are much more subtle and can remain unnoticed by women for years.
Men can tolerate a lot, but why don’t you ladies try making their our life at
least a little bit easier? Especially when those men are your boyfriends and
husbands. Here are 10 annoying female habits that drive guys crazy:-
1. Being late all the
time:
Some people are just chronically
late, no matter male or female. Nevertheless, girls tend to take more time
preparing, especially when it comes to events like going to the church
together, events or having that very special reservation at the restaurant you
both have been dying to visit. And the more important the event, the more time
you need to prepare especially doing makeup! Being late is one of the most
annoying habits that has destroyed thousands of relationships.
2. Stealing from his
plate:
Yes, some people
actually hate that! Especially when we’re talking about that chocolate mousse
dessert, suya or pepper soup he’s been looking forward to munching by himself,
but instead of ordering your own, you decide it would be okay to steal a few
bites from his plate. And it’s never just a few bites, right ladies?
3. Being on the phone
24/7:
Social media, friends,
family, books, music, and even work – modern smartphones seem to contain ladies
whole lives inside their small plastic bodies. Nevertheless, when you’re with
your loved one, it’s always good to unplug and shift your focus to the person
in front of you. It’s a matter of respect and, really, the world won’t end if
you don’t check your e-mail for a few hours and just spend time with your
boyfriend.
4. Rejecting compliments:
It’s the thing with you
girls – you’re trying so hard to look your best, but then for some reason can’t
take it when other people actually acknowledge the fact yoy look awesome. If
your boyfriend finds you gorgeous with disheveled hair and no makeup whatsoever,
and decides to tell you about that – just take the compliment! There’s no need
to find one thousand reasons why you simply can’t look beautiful wearing your
PJs and reading glasses. He thinks you’re pretty and that’s all that matters.
5. Constantly being
‘fine’:
OK, ladies, you get it,
speaking about your feelings is just as hard for women as it is for men. Just
remember that guys can’t read minds, no matter how much they love their
girlfriends. If something bugs you or makes you sad, find the courage to speak
out and deal with the issue. Otherwise you won’t be happy and your boyfriend
will be frustrated, guessing what might have gone wrong. It’s a recipe for
disaster!
6. Being manipulative:
Some girls do it on
purpose, while others use these small tricks on a subconscious level. Either
way, guys hate it when women try to manipulate them and usually see through all
the techniques they are testing on them. Never flirt with another guy to make
your boyfriend jealous or to prove a point – it’ll only make things worse. A
guy in love will do anything for his woman, but don’t use that love as leverage
to get the things you want or to go places he wouldn't normally visit.
Relationships are about respect and treating each other as equals!
7. Rearranging his
things:
Some women love order
so much that they’re ready to clean and sort out everything in the house,
including his belongings. While it is certainly good to have order in the
house, most men find it quite annoying if their things are touched without
permission. It’s not about the things, really, but rather the fact that they
can’t find anything after the clean-up. No matter how chaotic or disorderly his
table looks, rest assured he knows perfectly well where he can find a minute
piece of the Zippo lighter he’s been fixing for the last few months or a spare
charger for your smart phone.
8. Complaining too
much:
You ladies all have
problems, co-workers you don’t get along with or bosses who are too pushy, yet
this doesn't mean you should complain about them 24/7. It’s true that your
partners are there to support you, but too much negativity is bad for
relationships and won’t make either you or your boyfriend happy. Maintaining a
more positive attitude is healthy for relationships and will help you build a
deeper bond with your partner. Psychologists confirm that in general men like
kind-hearted girls more than they do mean and ironic ones.
9. Posing questions
with no right answer:
Most of the time you,
ladies, don’t do this on purpose, but men certainly think you girls have some
hidden agenda every time you ask ‘How do I look?’ or ‘Does this dress make me
fat?’ These kinds of questions make guys sweat and lose their cool, not to
mention that there is no right answer because everything depends on a girlfriend’s
mood at the moment. It’s really putting men between a rock and a hard place!
10. Making him feel
guilty for having other interests
It’s natural for people
to have different hobbies. In fact, it’s even better when you and your
boyfriend have separate interests that make you spend time apart. It’s good if
your hobbies match, and it’s equally good if they don’t! You are two different
personalities, so nagging him for wanting to watch a football game instead of
hanging out with you will only harm your relationships. Guys are really annoyed
when women try to limit their freedom in any way, especially when it comes to
the things they love!