Marriage is a huge commitment.
You never want to get sucked into a marriage that is going to end up making you
downright unhappy and frustrated with your life. You always have to make sure
that before you get married to a fine lady, you should have the mental and
emotional faculties that are necessary to really sustain a marriage.
You have to be a mature human
being who understands that love and marriage aren’t easy and that a lot of work
and commitment really goes into churning out a successful union between two
people. But aside from merely building yourself up to be a person who is truly
ready for marriage.
You also have to make sure that
you choose the right partner to spend the rest of your life with. You can’t
afford to not be choosy when selecting your potential mate.
You always have to make sure that
the lady you choose is someone who you are compatible with. Remember that you
are going to have to share your life with this woman. So a lot of thought and
analysis has to go into selecting your wife..
While it can be wrong to
automatically dismiss a woman without getting to know them, there are just some
kinds of women that you really should veer away from. These are the types of
women who will make it incredibly difficult for you to be happy in a marriage.
These are the women who are going
to make you want to just put a gun to your head and shoot yourself if you’re
not careful. So always be receptive of all kinds of women, but always make sure
to stay guarded as well.
You don’t want to end up marrying
a woman who is going to corrupt your soul and your whole idea of love. Here are
the types of women you should avoid marrying at all costs:-
1. The one who is bitter about
everything:
This women is the ultimate negation. She is always upset and being negative about something. She is
constantly bringing negative vibes into your life. She’s like a human black
cloud always choosing to hover over you making everything gloomy.
2. The one who only thinks
about herself:
This is the girl who will never
pay you any mind. She is incredibly selfish and she is only ever looking out
for herself. She won’t really give a damn about how you feel unless she knows
she can get something out of it.
3. The one who is all about
material possessions:
She is going to want the most
lavish gifts from you. She isn’t going to be interested in your love unless it
comes in the form of expensive commercial items. You are going to go broke
trying to please her so you have to be careful.
4. The one who is a big flirt:
Her eyes aren't going to be
reserved for you. She is going to keep on scouting for potential targets she
can use her moves on. She likes the game of flirting and she likes to play with
different kinds of people. You will never feel a sense of security when you’re
with her.
5. The one who wants to party
every weekend:
At some point, you are both going
to have to grow up and say goodbye to the whole club and party scene. So if
she’s still the type of girl who wants to go out clubbing every single weekend,
then she probably hasn’t matured enough for marriage yet.
6. The one who thinks she’s
entitled to everything: She is going to demand the world from you and even if
you do manage to give it to her, it’s never going to be enough. She is the type
of girl who thinks she doesn't have to work hard for the things that she wants.
She believes that everything should be served to her on a silver platter.
7. The one who can’t stand not
being the center of attention:
She is never going to allow you
to shine. She will be jealous of whatever success you are going to get. She wants
all eyes to be on her at all times.
8. The one who can’t stop
gossiping:
She is going to be all about the
drama. And eventually, drama is going to end up poisoning a relationship. When
you get older, you are going to want to limit the drama as much as possible. So
if your wife is a constant source of drama, then that’s something that you
should be worried about.
9. The one who is afraid of
commitment:
Of course you need a wife who is
going to commit to you. Commitment is key in actually making a marriage work
and so you always need to make sure that your girl is ready to really work
things out with you for the long haul.