SHE IS AFRAID TO MARRY HIM: About
a week ago, a lady from another country chatted me up on Facebook here. She's a
young widow with two children. She lost her husband few years ago. Presently
now, a man is interested in getting married to her. According to her, this man
is a child of God by his conduct and characters. He is working in a very good
place and has chains of businesses . Also, he is very handsome. A dedicated
worker in the house of God and firm believer of sexual purity.
Then, this lady told me that
she's afraid of getting married to the man. I said why? She said, how can
someone has all those good qualities? She's of the opinion that, such men
should be suspected and can it be true that one man will be that qualified? She
said, it is too real to be true.
I laughed. I asked her if she
wants a man that's a child of God but poor. She said 'No'! I asked if she wants
a man that's rich but ugly, She said 'No!' I asked further if she wants a man
that's rich, handsome but worldly and not serious with the things of God. She
said No!" , So, I told her, it means you want a man that is rich,
righteous and handsome? She said 'yes sir". I said, now, God is sending
you such a man and you are still feeling a man cannot be all that alright.
While I am not against proper
investigation before investment of your time, emotions, life and all into a
relationship with a man/woman, at the same time, don't be held down by this
wrong notions or belief that, any genuine man must be deficient one way or the
other. This mindset has kept so many people in fear. When they see someone who
is well alright spiritually, financially, socially and emotionally, they begin
to suspect and feel such a person must be a danger or a pretender.
Many of us don't believe that we
deserve the best from God. Many of us don't Believe God can give us 'total
package" . We pray for blessings, but when God is sending the blessings in
a bigger form, we shrink and begin to doubt if it is actually true or if we
actually deserve such huge blessings.
Have you not read, that, God can
do exceedingly, abundantly, above all that you could ever asked or imagined,
according to His power that's at work within you?( Eph 3:20)
I am a child of The KING of
kings. I deserve the best of the bests. There is no blessings of God that's too
big for me to have. If it pleases my DADDY to send any of His blessings to my
life, I have capacity to welcome them. I will only bow in awe of His
sovereignty and worship His generosity but I will not feel inferior to use or
own His blessings. If He can give up His Beloved Son for me, what's that
blessings He cannot give me.
Friends, Don't feel inferior to
embrace the super blessings, job, promotion, financial blessings , spiritual
blessings , marriage partner, ministerial expansion , etc that God is sending
to your life this month and this year. Dont be afraid to 'marry' the blessings
God is sending to you.
We deserve the best from our Best
DADDY in heaven. I believe this minister to you as it ministered to me too.
Thanks for reading!