THE COMPLETE BEAUTY OF A WOMAN

Women are really beautiful creatures. In every culture women are beautified. In precolonial African societies women were well groomed. The Fattening Rooms were the beauty salons where women were made curvy and their skins pampered with palm kernel oils. They were also lectured on the etiquette of femininity.

Contemporary women go a long way to look glam and fab. Most women today are truly beautiful. Time and money is devoted to be beautiful. It's a beauty regimen from hair to toes.

Women of today spend a fortune on hair care. Braiding of all types, perming, fixing of weavons, and wigs are deployed by the womenfolk to look enchanting and endearing.

The face is the focus of most women and no expense is spared to achieve amazing facial. There are professional make up artists who can transform a plain looking woman to a beauty queen. The majority of women keep a make up kit in their bags that contain a cornucopia of brushes, foundation powder, mirror, eye pencil, lip sticks, concealers, lip gloss, eye shadow, eye liner, bronzes and assorted beauty apparatchiks.

What's in vogue today is skin toning and lightening. Some African women finds the black skin offensive and prefers a white skin and because of this charlatans masquerading as dermatologists and skin doctors are smiling to the bank selling all sorts of bleaching creams. The trick is to claim you're selling organic skin products whereas you are actually selling poisons and toxins that contain Mercury and other heavy chemicals.

Women invest heavily on pedicures and manicures. Women don't play with their nails. Acrylic nails are preferred by most.

The very rich among the womenfolk visits spas and saunas for body treatment, waxing and relaxation.

Women also spend a fortune on plastic surgery to get the hour glass figure while some engage in rigorous exercise to tone the body and develop curves.

Women spend on perfumes and body sprays to be aromatic. Necklaces, rings, waist beads, leg chains etc are beauty accessories of women.

I can go on and on but let me me break the nut and get the kernel of the post.

Women are beautiful. They're attractive. They're magnetic. Only homosexuals and impotent men look at women without a second glance. Many men and drivers have a habit of turning to look at the backside of women. 90% of men find the buttocks of women mesmerizing.

But the picture is different when you meet some these women one on one or enter into a relationship with them. There are good women but some women are predators. They prey on lecherous and gullible men. Today if you get attracted to a woman and woo her you become a victim of extortion. Toast the typical woman today and she becomes cashless, phone-less, homeless, hopeless and helpless. Relationship is business to many women. They're mercantile and Machiavellian. They'll squeeze you dry.

Many women are beautiful outside and ugly inside. They're a contradiction of sorts. Their beauty will attract you but their character will repel you. Certainly not all that glitters is gold and not all that is gold that glitters when in relationship/ marriage. Some beautiful women can be crude and rude. They lack respect and regards to interpersonal skills. They're parasites. They're only good for sex and cooking. They spend the better part of their time watching Zee World, African Magic Epic and Big Brother. They cannot sustain logical conversations. They're useless to a man's career and aspirations.

Most women are beautiful until you come close enough to see how ugly they are in behavior although we still have excellent ones around just like my beautiful Queen who is very beautiful inward and outward.

Dont Forget To Read

MARITAL EXPECTANCY OF MEN

One of the most significant sources of stress in marriage is tied to expectations. When expectations are unclear, unhealthy, unspoken or unmet , one or both spouses can start to feel neglected, inadequate and/or frustrated with the marriage. I’m convinced many (if not most) divorces come back to expectations. When a man and woman first start out together in marriage, both of them are carrying unspoken expectations. They each have a vision of what the home life will be. They have separate ideas of what their sex life will be. They have different dreams for what their future family will be. They also have different expectations for what the each of their responsibilities should be. These different expectations are rarely communicated out loud because most newlyweds naively believe that they are so in sync with their spouse that the unspoken expectations are exactly the same. This is never the case. Two different individuals with two different personalities coming from two diff...

HOW MOST WIVES LOOK OLDER THAN THEIR HUSBANDS

Many a time , I remember hearing that it is better for a lady to marry a man reasonably older than her so that she do not end up looking older than him. The source of this advice I do not know, well, we can easily classify it as one of old wives’ tales. There is hardly any girl growing up in this country who didn't hear that. Many are still guided by it till today , others couldn't be bothered. However, things have changed drastically, these days we have women who are far older than their husbands and are happily married. But if women tend to look older than their husbands even when they are age mates or younger than their husbands, what happens to women who are already older than their husbands even before they marry? I have seen young women transform into old women soon after they become wives and mothers. When they step out with their husband they look more like the aunty or even the mother. To many it is normal, and even ‘expected’, but I have often wondere...

YOUR WIFE IS YOUR LIFE PARTNER NOT LIFE SERVANT

I cringed today when a man said if his wife does something he ‘commands’ her not to do, he'd send her out of his house back to her parents; that it's very wrong for a woman to disobey her husband no matter what. Well, I couldn't hold my chill, I opposed him passionately and he resorted to calling me a kid; “You won't understand till you get married.” That's always how they sound. Very manipulative old folks. Please single guys, when you wanna get married, just remind yourself that the woman you're getting married to will be your life partner, not your servant. You ain't doing her a favor by getting married to her, so don't ever feel that sending her back to her parents means she'll die or lose her womanhood. Your wife is not your errand girl, she's like a colleague and she's important like you in that marriage, so you don't command her to do things, you don't just give orders, No! Both of you are to reach a stand...

WHY WOMEN CHEAT IN MARRIAGE

It is humane enough to give into temptations; emotions can be wild and desires like an untamed child. They can make you put all logic, rationale and ethics into the back burner. It takes a lot of effort and not to mention. one has to endure a different kind of pain altogether when one decides to side with morality. It is the pain of never knowing how the forbidden fruit would taste. Whatever it is, infidelity or loyalty is a personal choice. But to say married women cheat is a wrong and unethical statement. Well, not all married women but why some married women cheat is what we are getting at. Sometimes even women who have the picture perfect life find it difficult to resist the love seeks them out of the wedlock. knowing what makes women fall into extramarital relationships, sometimes despite living a perfectly happy married life. Here he cites few reasons:- 1. Sheer boredom: They say variety is the spice of life for a reason...

WHY YOU SHOULD MARRY HIM

Marriage is a serious commitment. In days when divorce rates are at an all-time high, choosing the right life partner to truly go the distance with is difficult. It can make the decision to marry seem that much more daunting and nerve-wracking. So how do you know your partner is worth marrying? When you’re so close to a situation – or in this case, a relationship – it can be difficult to remain fully objective. You might not see certain warning signs or may not realize that you’re missing some essential components of a long-lasting marriage. So what truly shows that your partner and your relationship have what it takes to fulfill the vows of “to death do us part”? The answers are actually quite simple, but they might just surprise you. Here are some signs he is worth marrying . Here Are 7 Signs He Is Worth Marrying:- 1. If Communication Is Excellent: Communication is key in any relationship . Without effective, positive communication...

Search This Blog