RATIONALE BEHIND BEING IN LOVE

To love is to identify, study and understand your partner's values, rules, beliefs, secrets, flaws, past and present experiences including stains, and you still choose to respect each other's differences and appreciate the similarities. You still want to spend the rest of your life with that person, you choose to look past those things and still want to be with each other because you are only focused on the bright side of things. It's not just about having sex, taking each other on several dates or holding each other's hands or buying each other gifts, it is about you giving up something to be with each other, sacrificing one or two things to be together. I don't see the point if you are not looking past a horrible experience to be with your partner, or knowing a certain flaw and still not learning to be with each other, I honestly can't understand the point in loving if all you seek for is perfection. It is pointless, because when you say you love someone, you should sometimes let go of your purified self to be with someone who is stained but willing to become as clean as a snow.

You must learn to look past what seems to be an eternal dirt and focus more on what may bring pleasure to the relationship you both share, love is to love without having to hold anything against him or her, except violence or any form of abuse is present in the relationship. Love because you have the ability to love, not because it is dependent on one's perfection.

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WHEN WILL YOU DEAL WITH YOUR OWN HUSBAND?

A Beloved sister was sharing with me how a woman who makes her hair for her was reported to moved out of her husband's house for some months and she came back later. She told this sister that, she does not deal with her husband immediately the man offends her. She said, if the husband offends her today, she might not do or say anything about the offense now until June or August. That's when she will now deal with the husband. She added that, she has several ways of dealing with the husband. The painful part of it is that, the husband won't be able to understand the rationale behind the wickedness and maltreatment the wife is melting out to him. It is after much asking, that, the wife will now say, it was because of so so so and so thing you said to me that day 3 months ago, that I am doing this thing I am doing now to teach you lessons and deal with you. The husband would say, 'why can't you bring it up when it happened and let me apologize or tell you the...

WHY WOMEN CHEAT IN MARRIAGE

It is humane enough to give into temptations; emotions can be wild and desires like an untamed child. They can make you put all logic, rationale and ethics into the back burner. It takes a lot of effort and not to mention. one has to endure a different kind of pain altogether when one decides to side with morality. It is the pain of never knowing how the forbidden fruit would taste. Whatever it is, infidelity or loyalty is a personal choice. But to say married women cheat is a wrong and unethical statement. Well, not all married women but why some married women cheat is what we are getting at. Sometimes even women who have the picture perfect life find it difficult to resist the love seeks them out of the wedlock. knowing what makes women fall into extramarital relationships, sometimes despite living a perfectly happy married life. Here he cites few reasons:- 1. Sheer boredom: They say variety is the spice of life for a reason...

Eddie Jazz Genesis Album

The album has been on project since last year, with the last interview with Eddie Jazz , he told just imagine nigeria that his album is almost ready. Yesterday he drop a mixtape titled jagaban which official song was done by ycee. We will be hitting you with the download link any time from now.

TO ALL MY FRIENDS AND ENEMIES

1. Once upon a time I met a man who told me that telling the truth and making someone cry, is better than telling a lie and making someone smile and happy. 2. He said to me your true friends are those who will never avoid you just because they have met new friends. 3. As he kept on speaking to me, he said If some people do not appreciate and value my presence, I should work hard to make them value and appreciate my absence. 4. He said I must not be angry with anyone who is quiet on me because there must be a reason why they are quiet, and that I will get to know the reason later. 5. He told me it is always better to be a blessing to others at all times than to be a burden at all times. 6. He said I must learn to forgive others not because they deserve it but because I deserve the peace that comes with forgiveness. 7. I must know that everyone deserves a second chance and many more chances if they ask for forgiveness, but I must not loose my guard over their intentions....

RELATIONSHIP AND LONELINESS

Relationship does not cure loneliness. You can be in a relationship and be lonely and you can also be married and be lonely. If you don't overcome loneliness and enjoy your company, you are not ready for relationship/marriage. The Bible says, 'Adam was alone but not lonely'. If you go into a relationship because you are lonely, you will make a ship wreak of the relationship. Loneliness is not a curse, that you are without someone in your life does not mean something is wrong with you. Don't rush, date yourself so you won't be confused about who to date.

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