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THE PRICE FOR A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP

One thing people fail to realize is that every height of relationship is as a result of strong commitment and dedication. What you need is the relationship intelligence that deals with maintaining and sustaining your relationship. This is the intelligence that involves practically making your partner feel loved and cared for and executing it in your day to day activities. Take one-day at a time to see to the improvement of your relationship, the happiness of your partner.


You need to understand that communication is the heart of any relationship and if you are denying your partner the communication needed or refuse to give your relationship the time and attention that it deserves through communication, you are indirectly killing the relationship. Feelings die because partners fail to renew them. You can be in a relationship all alone if you have a strongv resentment, kindly have a heart to heart talk with him. The relationship needs affection, love, joy, peace, trust and oneness and it does not come automatically, you have to sow the seeds for it to grow.



When you see two good lovers holding hands and still in love for long years, it does not come on a platter of gold, they paid the price. If you desire such, make sure that you are willing to pay the price. Love might be cheap, but to have a successful relationship, there is a price to pay and you must be willing to pay the price.


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TO ALL MY FRIENDS AND ENEMIES

1. Once upon a time I met a man who told me that telling the truth and making someone cry, is better than telling a lie and making someone smile and happy. 2. He said to me your true friends are those who will never avoid you just because they have met new friends. 3. As he kept on speaking to me, he said If some people do not appreciate and value my presence, I should work hard to make them value and appreciate my absence. 4. He said I must not be angry with anyone who is quiet on me because there must be a reason why they are quiet, and that I will get to know the reason later. 5. He told me it is always better to be a blessing to others at all times than to be a burden at all times. 6. He said I must learn to forgive others not because they deserve it but because I deserve the peace that comes with forgiveness. 7. I must know that everyone deserves a second chance and many more chances if they ask for forgiveness, but I must not loose my guard over their intentions....

THINGS YOUR HUSBAND NEEDS FROM YOU

It doesn't take an expert to know that men and women are very different. What we often don’t pay attention to is that those differences mean that what a husband needs from his wife is quite different from what a wife needs from her husband. Our tendency is to try to express love to our spouse in the way we would like to be loved. Unfortunately that is never a successful strategy. Don’t make the assumption that your husband should be satisfied because you are giving him what you want to receive from him. Here are the top four needs that every husband has: 1. Respect He would rather be unloved than disrespected. Respect is huge with men. Men need love just like women do but a man can cope with not being loved much better than he can cope with not being respected. If your husband had to choose between love and respect, he would choose respect any day. There is something in the way that God wired men that makes them crave to be respected, especially by their wives. Your husb...

NINETEEN WAYS YOU CAN BE ROMANTIC

If you love that woman, then this is how you can be romantic towards her — and your relationship with her would get better. Being a romantic man isn't a trait to toy with. When you’re a romantic man, you can easily sweep your lady off her feet. It’s easy for your lady to fall in love with you the more when you are a romantic man. 1. Do things that would surprise her. An act of surprise is usually romantic. 2. Just call her from work to tell her you love her. 3. Celebrate her birthday with her like it meant a lot to you. 4. Leave a note somewhere she can see it telling her how much she means to you. 5. Give her attention. 6. Do something she loves with her. 7. Give her a surprise gift when she least expects. 8. Do something thoughtful for her. 9. Dole her with compliments. 10. Tell her she’s beautiful. 11. Get her a dress you feel she would look beautiful in. 12. Look into her eyes and tell her she means the world to you. 13. Take her out on dates regularly. 14. ...

YOUR WIFE IS YOUR LIFE PARTNER NOT LIFE SERVANT

I cringed today when a man said if his wife does something he ‘commands’ her not to do, he'd send her out of his house back to her parents; that it's very wrong for a woman to disobey her husband no matter what. Well, I couldn't hold my chill, I opposed him passionately and he resorted to calling me a kid; “You won't understand till you get married.” That's always how they sound. Very manipulative old folks. Please single guys, when you wanna get married, just remind yourself that the woman you're getting married to will be your life partner, not your servant. You ain't doing her a favor by getting married to her, so don't ever feel that sending her back to her parents means she'll die or lose her womanhood. Your wife is not your errand girl, she's like a colleague and she's important like you in that marriage, so you don't command her to do things, you don't just give orders, No! Both of you are to reach a stand...

𝐎𝐍𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐈𝐃 '𝐒𝐄𝐗𝐘' 𝐀𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑 𝐎𝐍𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐈𝐃 '𝐓𝐀𝐗𝐈'

I was going home yesterday after delivery at the federal housing estate, Calabar. On my way home, I saw a lady standing beside the road half-naked. She said to me while pointing her finger to her opened breasts, 'Hello, Sexy'! I know she was saying her breasts are sexy. I looked at her and shook my head in pity for her. I moved on. As I walked a little distance from her, I got to a place (old odukpani road) where you have taxi drivers passing. I saw a lady driving a taxi car slowly, and dressed in a sporty way. She called to me and said, " Hello sir, Taxi? Meaning, she was asking me if I would like to take a taxi. I smiled at her and said sure and I quickly jumped inside the car with others passengers.  I also gave her a tump up and a look of ' Weldone, I am proud of you. While one lady was ready to offer her body for sex to get money, another was ready to work with her hands by driving people to their destination and earn money in a dignified way. It is a...