At
one time, a newly married young man was shouting at his 22 years old wife and
his father called him aside and said to him, 'We only shout at people our
shouts or threats can frighten. But not to your wife.
The way you are
shouting, you are giving away your power to your wife. Your threats make her
stronger. Most men believe that when a woman is threatened, she gets subdued,
but women are not changed with fear. A woman may stay quiet when a man is
threatening and shouting at her but she is not sitting down inside her. She is
evaluating the man's weakness and how to subdue him rather.
Cast your mind back to those days men used to beat their wives flippantly at slightest provocations, today most of those men are older and they are facing the consequences.
Cast your mind back to those days men used to beat their wives flippantly at slightest provocations, today most of those men are older and they are facing the consequences.
Those women their
husband were beating years back are the ones enjoying the marriage with their
children today, the mothers have their children's sympathy, the men are at the
receiving end. Let it become clear to men that the way into a woman's heart is
not to try to threaten and subdue her. God spoke to men and said, 'Husbands,
love your wife'. Do you need an elaborate explanation of this scripture? Love
makes women weak. When you truly love a woman and show it, she will submit to
you without qualms. But when a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy,
you just want to use her or you are domineering and controlling, the spirit of
rebellion takes over her. She might not physically stand on your way but she is
plotting coup against you and one day, you will sit and watch her and her
children force you to follow their rules or die quicker.
Almost all the great
and fierce kings you know died before their wives. They lived all through their
lives threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of
their strong fellow men but all the women they threatened stayed alive. Women know
how to survive against men. The 'lion' in men does not scare women or get them
to submit to you, it is love that conquers a woman, not force or threats. This
might subdue fellow men, but not your wife. Women naturally know how to survive
pains. They can walk to the fearful serpent and make their demands. They have
resilient spirit.
There are things women
fear but not the lion inside men. They can submit and respect their men so
foolishly that you imagine that there is no gut inside them. They have guts men
don't have, love your woman into submission.
Men don't have compatible or cordial relationship with women by showing the lion inside them. God knew women before us and begged that we show love than threats. He gave men the formula, recipe for a blissful, joyous and fulfilled homes,
Men don't have compatible or cordial relationship with women by showing the lion inside them. God knew women before us and begged that we show love than threats. He gave men the formula, recipe for a blissful, joyous and fulfilled homes,
LOVE YOUR WIFE!
This formula of loving
your wife will help you win her. When a woman is loved, you break all her guts
and she stays in your hands. A woman can do anything to stay with a man who is
honestly in love with her. Talk gently to your wife, love her, pet her, don't
shout at her, and you will win her and make your points!
Do not arrogantly display your weakness as a man by shouting.
Do not arrogantly display your weakness as a man by shouting.