DID SHE SNATCHED YOUR HUSBAND?

Look, your husband is not a baby. No one can "snatch" him without his permission. Some women see their husband as a little weakling who has no brain of his own and can't think at all. They see him as an idiot who is too weak to resist any female attention so they swing into action to "protect" him by searching his phone, probing him, eying every female that hangs around him and caging him. No, they can't cage him 24/7. They pay cheap gossips at his office to monitor his every movement and eventually develop hypertension! Look, you will just kill yourself! No one can snatch your husband like a handbag at the public market. No one can steal your husband unless he is beaten to a state of comma and carried off. No woman can make him leave you unless he wants to. All these crap I hear from women that "My husband is innocent. He sat on his own when the lady came to meet him, seduced him, use juju on him and made him marry her" gets me worked up. He slept with her because he WANTED to, period! She was able to seduce him because he WELCOMED her. If he said NO, she would stop dead in her track. He married her because he was sick and tired of your boring marriage and wanted something new and exciting, it's as simple as that. You can't keep a man hell bent on straying. If he didn't do it with Ngozi, he will definitely run away with Bintu. A cheat will cheat whether you police him or not. What you need to do is work on your marriage. Make yourself so indispensable in your husband's life that no woman can snatch him. When a man is thoroughly satisfied at home, who is the witch that will carry him off? When you totally adore him, creatively seduce him, generously feed him, lavishly make love to him, excessively forgive him, graciously accept his weaknesses, totally befriend him, completely trust him and ceaselessly pray for him, which woman from the pit of hell wants to carry your husband off? Women will do well to focus on real things and stop chasing shadows. A successful marriage is not built on wishful thinking but HARDWORK. You can't fold your arms and let things slide only to wake up when another woman is chasing your husband. Give your husband your best and he will not allow any woman to snatch him from you.

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MARITAL EXPECTANCY OF MEN

One of the most significant sources of stress in marriage is tied to expectations. When expectations are unclear, unhealthy, unspoken or unmet , one or both spouses can start to feel neglected, inadequate and/or frustrated with the marriage. I’m convinced many (if not most) divorces come back to expectations. When a man and woman first start out together in marriage, both of them are carrying unspoken expectations. They each have a vision of what the home life will be. They have separate ideas of what their sex life will be. They have different dreams for what their future family will be. They also have different expectations for what the each of their responsibilities should be. These different expectations are rarely communicated out loud because most newlyweds naively believe that they are so in sync with their spouse that the unspoken expectations are exactly the same. This is never the case. Two different individuals with two different personalities coming from two diff...

No matter how solid your bricks are, they can never stand on a sandy foundation.

v Crazy people don’t know they are crazy. I know I’m crazy therefore I’m not crazy, isn’t that crazy? v Humans and relations are like breeze…… they can fade away at any time. (Lynn Obiageli Ogunor) v The eye lashes are like umbrella when it rains from the heart. (Jay Electricity) v Don’t matter how far ahead I get, I always feet behind. (Big Sean) v I believe love could bring us closer than blood. (Alicia Keys & A$AP Rocky) v My love was stronger than your pride, beyond your darkness I’m your light, you get deep you touch my mind, baptize your tears and dry your eyes. (Beyonce Knowles) v The wise men followed the star, the way I followed my heart, and it led me to a miracle. (Justin Bieber) v These nights never seem to go to plan, I don’t want you to leave, will you hold my hand? (Sam Smith) v If the shoes don’t fit, we don’t quit, if the shoes are too tight, we sit home tonight. (Demon Wayans)

MARRY A BEST FRIEND

Friends play a vital role in our lives. The presence of friends in our lives is supposed to be a blessing. There is no security like having a friend who watches your back, guides you, assists you and listens to you. After creating man, God realized there was one thing missing, which was a lifetime friend for the man. That is why He instituted marriage; a lifetime friendship between a man and his wife. In this life, if any one will doubt us, not our friends. If anyone will give up on us, not our friends yet people we call friends, people we take bullets for, are the ones behind the trigger sometimes. Enemies who want to hurt you these days come into your life as your friend, just to have access to you. Satan has succeeded in creating counterfeits, including friends. If this is not the case, how can a husband of ten years of marriage tell his wife, “I no longer feel love for you so I want a divorce”, how can a wife married to wealthy man, leave him because he is now broke. People t...

KEEP THIS 7 COMMANDMENTS IF YOU NEED A GODLY AND SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

Social media negative influences, personal character flaws, promiscuous acts, poor home training and lack of respect for God's eternal laws is making some people think marriage is just a business they can walk in and walk out as they like. The rate of divorce today simply shows that too many ignorant people and families are destroying their eternity by some stupid decisions they are making by abusing marriage values as instructed by the Almighty God. That you have money or not doesn't exempt you from the warnings against divorce. I hope such people get to find help and retrace their steps before it's too late because IGNORANCE will not be an excuse when you die. These are Strong Words, but necessary for all and sundry. There are some necessary ingredients for a healthy marriage. That’s the point of this post. Want a healthier marriage? Consider these 7 Commandments of Marriage:- 1. Thou shalt serve one another: A good marriage practices mutual submissio...

WHAT IS THE BEST GIFT OF ALL?

“Every good gift and every perfect present is from above, coming down from the father of the celestial lights.” Yes of the many gifts that god has given mankind; there is one that is greater than all the res. What is it? Jesus’ well-known words, recorded at John 3:16 tells us: “God loved the world that he gave his only-begotten son, so that everyone exercising faith in him might not be destroyed but have everlasting life.” The gift of God’s only-begotten son that would certainly be the greatest gift that any one of us could ever receive, for thereby we can freed from the bondage to sin, old age, and death. Try as we may, on our own there is nothing we can do to be released from that bondage. However, in his great love, God provided what is needed to bring about that release. By giving his only-begotten son, Jesus Christ, as the ransom, Jehovah God gave obedient mankind the prospect of life everlasting. But what exactly is the ...

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