𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐋𝐋 𝐇𝐀𝐕𝐄 𝐓𝐎 𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐈𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐃𝐄𝐄𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐁𝐑𝐎𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑

You see that statement up there? That was what I told a daughter in the Lord yesterday.

Let me gist you about what led to that. She told me of how a deeper Life brother came to propose marriage to her and this deeper Life brother asked her to go and genuinely pray about his marriage proposal and get back to him.

For the first time, this sister took to her kneel and sought the face of God in serious prayers about her marital life and also about the proposal of this deeper life brother.

Heaven opened up on her and revelations and dreams and different convictions started pouring on her as to who to marry but unfortunately, God was not showing her anything about the deeper life brother. It was another brother in her church who has been asking her out for close to a year but never talked about marriage God was pointing her attention to. When she was sharing with me all her dreams, revelations and circumstantial confirmations God was giving her about the other brother she's to marry though she never liked this her church brother and she belongs to the group of ladies who always say; I can't date from my church, village, department, street bla bla bla. I had a strong agreement in my spirit man that, truly, this is God speaking to her.

I told her she should politely tell the deeper life brother that, God is not leading her to him. I later added that, she should appreciate that deeper Life brother very well because, it was his proposal that drove this my daughter to prayer Chamber that caused heaven's portal to open on her marital destiny. May be if that deeper life brother had not proposed Marriage to her, she might not have seen the necessity to pray at that time and all those great revelations and clarifications she got on her marital life might still be hanging somewhere, unrevealed.

Friends, there are many of us too that have our own "deeper life brother" we must appreciate. They might not really helped us , but somehow somehow, they connected us to those who are helping us. That your ex that left you and it was after he/she left you that you now found true love, that your ex is your own "deeper life brother". Appreciate him/her. Thank God he /she served as a forerunner that paved way for you to see your true husband/wife.

Do you know that, that your boss that sacked you and you now went to think of what you can do with your own life and skills and you now started your own business and you moved from being an employee to an employer of labor, that your boss is your own "deeper life brother". Appreciate him/her very well!

That person that encouraged you , that person that spoke senses into your head, that person that rejected you, that person that disciplined you, that person that introduced you, that person that mocked you, that person that motivated you and all of these experiences pushed you into the great levels you are enjoying now, those people are your own "Deeper life brothers". You need to appreciate them!

They might not be the one you "married' but at least, it was their "marriage Proposal" that led you into discovery of your "marital breakthrough" I speak in parable and I know the wise understand me clearly.

There are some of you here reading me, the first person that might come your way in term of Relationship, ministry partnership, business partnership might not really be the one that God wants you to settle down with. That person might just be your own "Deeper life brother" that will push you to go and pray and seek the face of God and piamm, your heaven will just pop open and you will now begin to see revelations and clarifications on what and what step to take and who and who God really wants you to journey with in Relationship, ministry, or business.

To all "Deeper life Brothers", please, don't be offended. The "lady" might not 'marry you' but you have been used by God to drive her into the place of discovery and it is sure that, there is no way she will talk about her marital Bliss and there is no way she wants to tell the story of how her love story started in God that she won't remember you that it was your " proposal" (Encouragement, discipline, motivation, etc )that led her to find clarification in "her adventures" I speak in parable here too.

I believe you have picked one or two things from this.

Appreciate your own "Deeper life Brothers" in your life. .

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